When I moved to Australia, I was taught yoga by a barrister. For the first time in my life I managed to quieten the words that jostled around in my head at 3 am, at 4 am, at 5 am. I became obsessed with my yoga practice as antidote to the busyness in my life. Being a lawyer, however, I not only wanted to practice yoga, I wanted to read about it. Research it. The first blog that I ever read was a daily yoga practice journal called Days In My Lives written by a doctor starting out on his Ashtanga Vinyasa yoga journey http://ashtanga.blogspot.com/2004/02/back-again.html. Dr OKRGR’s intense and sometimes punitive Mysore yoga practice gripped me. If he fell on his head trying to drop back into Urdvha Danurasana, I could literally feel his shock, pain and frustration. I was impressed and moved that someone would choose to share so much of themself so publicly and openly.
Not long after I started reading Days in My Lives, I became pregnant with my son, lost my job and a bit of my sanity for a while. After my son was born, any reading and writing that I did was minimal. For a while I enjoyed sending little home-made cards with handwritten episodes of my life with The Child Who Would Not Sleep to family and friends at home, with pictures. Like scrapbooking, the little home-made card is a fuzzy, feel good stick to beat yourself around the head with. After a while I realised that my son was not keen on his mum having a hobby that didn’t involve swings and slides. Then I found myself back writing legal things before too long and so I stopped writing again.
If it had not been for Twitter, the writing hiatus might have been permanent. Something about writing in short, sharp burst of conversation and listening to debates and discussion bubble up over everything from the best cup of coffee in Sydney to how to best wake up the rather foul smelling person who has just fallen asleep on you on the train inspired me.
It took one random question on Twitter from a blogging mum of four to get me to move from writing 140 characters to 500 and more. ‘Why don’t you blog?’ Brenda Gaddi (aka @mummytime on Twitter) asked me. I couldn’t think of a reason not to blog and so I did. The only thing that I could think of to write about, however, was my shoe obsession. Nothing else about me was remotely interesting. I had a look around to see if there were any other lawyers blogging about shoes and couldn’t find any. I named the blog ‘Law and Shoes’.
I published my first blog post for Law and Shoes on 4 September 2009. It was two lines long; I managed to get a grand total of 12 distinct reader hits and two reader comments. One was my own. I was smitten.
Law and Shoes has taken the place of my notebooks in the garage. I can use it to write about things that I have been thinking about and talking about for years. Or, I use it to take the place of my handwritten cards home and post copious pictures of my children getting up to no good. Best of all, I can catalogue my shoes and find ways to check them regularly to ensure that my husband isn’t chucking them out.
It started out as a blog about a lawyer’s shoe collection but through time it has become my journal — my opportunity for self-study and observance. When I blog, I simultaneously learn a lot about myself — that I can figure out how to use a blogging platform, create content, manipulate photos; that people enjoy what I write and that I can make people laugh. The blog has also become a medium for me to find blogs written by other people who have an even more deranged approach to footwear than I do. We enjoy each other’s company even though we have never met.
No-one out there is ever going to put me forward for a Blawg award. This is probably just as well because now my personal writing and teaching yoga is more important to me than the law ever was.
However, for those of you lawyers who do want to write about law whether in combination with fashion, fiction, book or film reviews here are a selection of my lawyers’ blogs for inspiration.
Blogs by Lawyers about the Law relating to Fashion
Fashionista at Law (Olswangs) http://blogs.olswang.com/fashionista/ - where Fashion meets Law.
Law of Fashion (Charles Colman Law Pllc) http://www.lawoffashion.com/
Blogs by Lawyers who love fashion
Corporette Fashion and Lifestyle Blog for Female Lawyers http://www.corporette.com/ A goldmine of suggested guidelines for dressing for success (eg 3 to 4 inch heels are most professional heel heights); are flat shoes fine for court? Answer, yes, a shoe that has a slight point to the toe; the rounder-toed ones tend to look a wee bit like slippers.
Law Fashionista http://lawfashionista.blogspot.com/
Lucky Cinderella http://lucky-cinderella.blogspot.com/ Sara of Lucky Cinderella is a lawyer with a wardrobe to die for. I have images of her colleagues lining up and applauding every morning when she arrives at work. Proof that you can dress in a corporate manner and still look fresh, elegant and like you are being true to yourself. Also, seeing her cat I can understand why she is not keen on wearing black.
Siouxsie Law http://www.siouxsielaw.com Siouxsie is my blogging idol. She writes about fashion, film, music and law — from an entirely goth perspective.
Soshoemi http://soshoemi.blogspot.com — the musings of another (intellectual property) lawyer who has a thing about shoes.
Amicae Curiae http://amicaecuriae.wordpress.com — Girlfriends of the Court.
MEGAN MACGREGOR’s blog is at http://lawandshoes.wordpress.com/ and you can follow her on Twitter @gabfran